House Divided
The entire (older) Nichols/Anderson clan is born and raised in Nebraska….except Kate. She joined the family as a Wisconsin Badger, and we forgave her for that long ago. Over the past eight years of Collin and Kate’s marriage, she bought a Husker shirt and dare I say it-even learned to like the Huskers a little bit. She slowly started to cheer for the Huskers on game day and even forgave her children for being die hard Husker fans.
That is until this year.
Nebraska, once a Big 12 team, moved conferences to the Big 10, the same division as the Badgers.
Let the games begin with these rules:
1). No yelling, 2). No name calling, 3). No throwing, 4). No throwing children, 5). No throwing cheese curds, 6). No throwing corn husks, 7). You can’t use children against one another, 8). We won’t make fun of your mascot if you don’t make fun of ours, 9). There is no place like Nebraska, 10). The Huskers are The Big Red. No….The Badgers are The Big Red. No….Nebraska. No….Wisconsin.
Now come on guys, you’re breaking rules 1) and 4).
It’s been tense in the family, to say the least, but our family doesn’t just thrive on football. We thrive on adventure, fun, and activities. Hold onto your footballs, this is going to go fast.
Doug and Sally had Shannon, Shiloh, and Collin many years ago. Shannon married Jeff Anderson six years ago. Case (4.5) and Siahna (1.5) belong to them. Shiloh is still single, although she has been dating Josh Martinez for a year. Mrs. Hazelnut and Lily, African Dwarf frogs, belong to them. Collin married Kate Habegger eight years ago. Carson (7.75), Kyler (5.5), and Corinne (3) belong to them.
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Shannon and Jeff live in Littleton, where Shannon is a stay at home mom and Jeff works at Digitech. Shannon ran two half marathons this year, sells Pampered Chef, won $100 for the best cobbler dessert contest, chopped off 12 inches of hair for Locks of Love, attends MOPS, and watches a 1 year-old girl a few times a month (not her own). Jeff ran part of a marathon….he was trying to get to the finish line before Shannon crossed and ended up running beside her while pushing Case and Siahna in the stroller…and is the deacon of technology at their church. Case is a busy little beaver, and if you want to hang out with him, you have to be scheduled in. The wait is over a week long. He is in preschool and is too smart for his class (takes after his aunt), so he will be moving to a new preschool in January. He has play dates every week with his best friend, Ian, and he turned 4 this year and had the best super hero party ever! He’s even in the process of changing his name from Case William to Case William Dean. Siahna is a happy little girl who has legs about six feet tall (I teach hyperbole to my students). She is well on her way to becoming the next family music star and loves, loves, loves music class. Late last year, they noticed she wasn't meeting her milestones and had her evaluated. They found mild to moderate delays in her motor skills, which in the long run has affected her verbal skills. Siahna then started receiving physical therapy 4x a month and eventually started speech therapy 2x a month. She received an MRI and lab work, all of which came back normal, which is good but doesn't give us a cause or reason for the delays. She has progressed leaps and bounds over the past year, and Siahna has been a delightful addition to the family.
I (Shiloh), also live in Littleton in a 624 square foot apartment, which I have turned into a comfy little home for myself. I am teaching my third year at Chatfield Senior High, where I get to talk about hyperbole, grammar, sentence structure, thesis statements, and literature to sophomore and junior students. I completed my fourth year riding in the MS150, and for some reason unknown to me, I taught summer school for the fourth year in a row. I changed my hair from blonde to black to brown to blonde to red back to black again, and I’m sure it will be different next month. My best friend, April, is officially five years cancer free and in remission, so life is good!
Collin and Katie decided to move back to Kearney in August after living in Colorado for over eight years. Collin is taking classes to be a history teacher, works at Skeeter Barnes, AND stays home with Corinne all while continuing his photography business. Collin completed his third year riding in the MS150 and even rode with me for most of day one. Katie works for The Buckle Warehouse and absolutely loves her new job. She is becoming quite the fashion bug and has quickly fit into her role at the Buckle. Carson goes off to school to be a second grader, while Kyler goes to the same school to be a kindergartner. Corinne goes wherever Collin goes. The boys have excelled in school and find it so amazing to run into so many friends when around town. The joys of a small town. Carson is quite the older brother and helps take care of Quinny, while Kye Lou is still predicted to be our rough NFL star when he gets older. Quinny is a girly-girl and loves the makeup, ribbons, and nail polish. Those who clean up after her do NOT enjoy the makeup, ribbons, and nail polish-but you can always find Quinny by following the mess.
Mom and dad are alive and well with no outward physical health problems. Dad is doing well with his MS and mom survived yet another year without surgery. They took a trip to Napa Valley to taste the wine and reported that it was very good, and they are going to Belize in December without inviting any of us kids. Rude! Boo dog sadly died last year after being hit by a car, and Libby Cat just doesn’t seem to want to die.
And then there was the big game. Wisconsin versus Nebraska. The day we had all been dreading and anticipating. Rule 10) is still being figured out, and rules 5) and 6) were quickly broken (Corinne ate the cheese curds), but in the end Wisconsin came out victorious.
Ultimately, we are stronger than a football game (at least this year). We have our health, our laughter, our children, and our memories. Jesus Christ resides as our referee, and while Kate and Kye will forever wear their Badger shirts and the rest of us pridefully cheer on our beloved Huskers, we know our family is centered on Christ.
House Divided?
Nah!
With love,
Doug & Sally Nichols
Jeff, Shannon, Case, & Siahna Anderson
Shiloh Nichols
Collin, Kate, Carson, Kyler, & Corinne Nichols